Every family is different. These tools are designed to work on their own or together. Start with what feels right for where you are right now.
Self-guided tools for understanding, skill-building, and perspective. Guided support when you want someone in your corner.
3-minute quiz that identifies which of 6 disconnection patterns is driving conflict. Free to take, with an optional deep-dive report.
5 interactive modules covering co-regulation, validation, and the developmental psychology that makes connection possible.
Separate surveys for parent and teen. See both perspectives mapped across 6 dimensions, with a 7-day reconnection plan.
You do not need to do everything.
You just need the right tool for right now.
Free
18 questions. 3 minutes. You will walk away knowing exactly which of the 6 disconnection patterns is running in your home and why conversations keep going the same way.
$27
Everything from the free quiz, plus the tools to actually change the pattern. Scripts you can use tonight, a plan for this week, and exercises to build the skills over time.
One-time payment. Lifetime access.
$47
5 interactive modules covering the developmental psychology that makes connection possible. Not theory for the sake of theory. Each module gives you something you can use the same day.
Module 1
Window of ToleranceModule 2
Co-RegulationModule 3
Validation vs. FixingModule 4
Supporting Without ShieldingModule 5
Recognizing When They Need MoreOne-time payment. Lifetime access.
Free to start · $97 to unlock report
You take a 34-question survey. Your teen takes a 28-question version. A dual radar chart maps both perspectives across 6 dimensions, showing exactly where you are missing each other.
What you get: Per-dimension interpretation, personalized 7-day plan, teen privacy controls (they stay in control), and unlimited free retakes to track progress over time.
Take the assessment free. Only pay $97 when your teen completes theirs.
From $297 / session pack
Flexible session packs. No subscription. No pressure.
Trusted by parents who wanted something that actually works
"Having actual words to say instead of just reacting changed everything. Turns out the problem was the loop we were stuck in."
Parent of 15-year-old
"The Playbook helped me understand what co-regulation actually means and how to be a safe landing pad without smothering her."
Parent of 14-year-old
"Once I stopped chasing her, she came to me. The report showed me exactly what I was doing wrong. Took about two weeks."
Parent of 16-year-old
"We went from constant blowups to real conversations. The Bridge Assessment showed us we were both hurting in the same places."
Parent of 13-year-old
"I finally understood why nothing I said was landing. The pattern was invisible until someone named it. Now I know exactly what to do differently."
Parent of 17-year-old
Start with the free quiz. If the paid tools are not the right fit, reach out within 14 days for a full refund. No explanation needed. We would rather you feel confident than committed.
The free quiz takes 3 minutes. You will know your pattern immediately.
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